Wednesday, 26 September 2012
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Good morning at 2:25 am and I am still awake with my mind wandering all kinds of places I really do not want it to go.
Lots of conversation Tuesday evening with TD about life insurance, insurance on bills through the bank that are paid when he passes, VA benefits for surviving wives and things of this nature.
Things I need to know but do not want to know.
Some times this stuff and the reality of it all become a very heavy load mentally and sleep simply does not come.
I can not even blame it on Star Bucks this time.
Think it is time to play solitaire.
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Hugs. Sorry.
praying you a blessing for today--karen
Dreadful to have to discuss the realities of life, but sometimes necessary. It will be better to somewhat know what's going on before, rather than after. I hope your spirits lift soon and you get some sleep. ((((((HUGS))))))
Had this sort of conversation with my Hubby nearly 10 years ago.... Now I'm trying to do it again, only the other way around. If anything ever happened to me, the poor fella would be absolutely lost. My heart and soul goes out to you as I truly know what it is to live on the cusp, the edge of the unthinkable as a day to day, year to year thing.
Hugs & Prayers!!
sometimes, you just don't want to deal with Reality, but you have to -- you are both in my thoughts -- take care.
Those are hard things to think about, but as you said, necessary. May God give you peace.
(((Hugs)))
(((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))))) It is hard to discuss. But a must so that you know where things are. I love Solitare too.
it is very hard to do but much needed--it was so much easier with my Mom amd Aunt-since I knew what they wanted done and where everything was.. I'm trying to make sure my hubby knows where everything is and how to turn the washing machine on !! etc. Big hugsssssssssss hope your day is better.
i'm so sorry. reality bites. i don't care for it.
Bless your heart-hope you got some rest
Not the conversations you want to have, but it has to be done. I can see where you can lose sleep over it. I hope the other situation we discussed last night gets worked out. that whole thing worries me. Take care my friend and you and TD have a super day! {{{Hugs}}}
@mcbery - ty so very much
@lifeontheWink - ty so very much
@armnatmom - ty so very much and hugs back your way
@tkperito - ty so very much and I am sorry that you walk this path also.
@MOM2_4 - ty so much and hugs and prayers your way too
@fireandicecat - ty so very much and I know you have had to deal with this reality in the past. not easy but a have too.
@ata_grandma - ty so very much
((((hugs))))
Hugs to you Ruthie. hope you have someone who is talking to you about palliative care too. Hope you don't have to worry about these things for a long time to come.
I'm sorry you are having to have these talks, Ruth. They are never easy. Continuing to keep you and TD in prayer.
Ruth it is so hard to have these talks but it is because TD loves you that he wants to discuss it all. Hugs to you both!